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I feel like I 'm aging out" of online dating. I've discovered after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the response I get on has dropped to nearly nothing. It's as though going from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some sort of death knell for a dating life. I begin contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The potential matches the site sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look in the age-range that those men want, (generally 35-50) I regularly go past them, understanding I can not compete with women in their desired range, even though many of those men are as much as 5-8 years older than me! To put it differently, intentionally sends me matches which are likely not realistic for me to pursue. When I've e-mailed a number of those men, I don't hear back. I am guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and probably read no further. Even if I'm within their desired range, I still do not get much of a response. I assume the reason behind this is they can get younger women to respond to them, so why would they go for me when they've a chance with the 45 year-old model of me? If their first wife was their age, like a school love or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer model, so to speak. Our culture encourages this. It is frustrating, as well as depressing and more than a little humiliating. Free Sex Dating in Countess. It's the built-in folly of online sites: you are just defined by your actual age, in bold type right next to your user name.

One more thing. I'd like to ask all my middle aged internet dating male and female compatriots a party favor. Countess, Alberta free sex dating. Please, let us rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sexy, play-free, and easygoing. And these, let us omit these too: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I loathe talking about myself, but..." and any and all derivatives of "my buddies/mother/ex-husband/kids tell me that..I am a glass-half-full optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I believe that if we can all agree to clean up our profiles then maybe, just perhaps, we can locate some common ground and get back to the business of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

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Tone Down the Boudoir Shots. You say you desire a quality man who respects you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship on you, and then you post photos of yourself next to your bed (or in your bed, or in your bed, or in somebody else's bed). Free Sex Dating in Countess Canada. And if you're not posting photographs of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you are posting photographs with far too much cleavage. Now, that's completely excellent - I have no trouble at all with this, and I am certain many guys do not have a problem either - but what some men do have a problem with is when women post said super-hot glamour shots and then complain to their friends, or make statements on their profiles about how all guys are dogs and only want them for sex. And while we are on the topic of criticism-filled profiles...

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I despise the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you most likely love them), but I do believe it's important that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is the fact that far too many women out there in the online dating world are using the "fit and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this complaint applies to men as well, of course). The thing is, there actually isn't anything wrong with having an about average (or curvy) body so let us take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and recognize once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (right, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Pictures. I love Instagram photos because many of the filters make my eyes look strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these photographs on my internet dating profile? No I don't. Why? Because my eyes are not really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photos would have you believe. This was the number one criticism among the men I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., deceptive) photographs. Truth in advertising ladies, truth in marketing.

Waaaay too Many Pet Photos. This was a tremendous criticism among the men I interviewed. They're taking a look at your profile to learn more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet photographs, particularly the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the subject of pet photographs, I have a private request of all you single, middle-aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photographs of your cats. This is really significant. I can not stress it enough. Single, middle-aged women already must cope with far too many negative stereotypes, and the cat photographs (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats in your bed) only serve to fortify them. I once wrote a blog post about how dating sometimes made me feel unwanted , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America telling me that I must live in a dark apartment with 100 or so cats, so really, please delete them.

Last week I shared my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I promised everyone that this week I Had concentrate on middle aged women's online dating profiles. Since I am far more comfortable with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this post. Free sex dating in Countess Alberta, Canada. The following list is my best attempt at summarizing the outcomes of my informal survey, with a few of my own observations based on a little research I ran myself. Disclaimer: if you're a woman between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland region, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I am sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

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I can not say it any clearer than this: Don't post any selfies of yourself looking into your own bathroom mirror, period. Seeing a guy standing next to an open bathroom, or just a toilet paper dispenser, is an immediate turn off. Take a selfie the way everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as though you're doing something fun (like fishing or watching football). Free Sex Dating in Countess Canada. Or, in the event you don't have a selfie stick, shoot your profile photo the old fashioned way by tapping the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your automobile. Worst comes to worst, have a buddy take an action shot of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. Countess, Alberta free sex dating. In the event that you don't have a single friend who can take your photograph, or you do not own a smartphone, then you probably shouldn't be dating in the first place.

I am not the only one finding these trends. Frequently, when I get together with my single girlfriends the subject of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I've looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men since I sensed they were extremely nice guys. And let's just say that I wasn't surprised when they shared their frustrations with online dating - of rarely receiving emails from women, of their emails regularly going unanswered. I liked to grab these guys by their shoulders, and give them a powerful (albeit friendly) shake, while sharing my feelings about their errant advertising techniques. But I've consistently resisted the temptation to do so from a fear of seeming rude and ill mannered.

A few of these profiles represent random oddities, the one-in-a hundred profile with an eyebrow-raising narrative or a few gasp-worthy photographs. These profiles can actually be an excellent source of amusement, particularly when wine is included. But what I find somewhat distressing are some rather distressing tendencies I Have noted in many men's profiles who seem to be fairly normal otherwise. I do empathize, really. A lot of us are dating novices, jumping back into the dating pool after years (sometimes decades) of marriage and child-rearing. We're all winging it to a certain extent, unsure of what the other sex is looking for, or how exactly to get their attention. But these gaffes are so obvious that I think that it's time someone opens a dialogue and asks the important question: Why? No really, why?

I've been a member of a popular online dating service for a little over a year now, and I must say that, overall, I'm pleasantly surprised by the characteristic of men I've met online. While I haven't yet met "the one," I remain optimistic that eventually, I 'll. Yet despite my generally positive encounters, I've encounter a few (hundred) profiles that totally baffle me in a these-men-certainly-were-not-raised-with-sisters-and-can't-possibly-have-any-female-friends sort of way. Like the man who believed that selecting the username "Undertaker" was wise, or the guy who shot his photos in a room that certainly yelled "locked residential facility." Or, the childless man who expressed his deep desire to meet a woman with young kids (rather lads). One of my all-time favorites however was the man who spent half his profile story writing about how he was still deeply in love with his ex wife, but since she wouldn't take him back, he was driven to find love online (yay us!).

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