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Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I despise the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you probably love them), but I do think it's significant that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is that far too many women out there in the online dating world are employing the "athletic and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this criticism applies to men as well, of course). The thing is, there really is not anything wrong with having an about average (or curvy) body so let's take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and comprehend once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (appropriate, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Pictures. I really like Instagram photos because several of the filters make my eyes seem strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these pictures on my online dating profile? No I do not. Why? Because my eyes are not really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photos would have you believe. This was the number one criticism among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., deceptive) photos. Truth in advertising ladies, truth in advertising.

Manner too Many Pet Pictures. This was a tremendous gripe among the guys I interviewed. They are looking at your profile to learn more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet photos, particularly the ones without you in them. Oh and while we are on the subject of pet pictures, I 've a personal request of all you single, middle aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photos of your cats. This is really significant. I can not stress it enough. Single, middle aged women already have to handle far too many negative stereotypes, and the cat pictures (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats in your bed) only function to strengthen them. I once composed a blog post about how dating sometimes made me feel unwanted , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America telling me that I must live in a dark flat with 100 or so cats, so actually, please delete them.

Last week I shared my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I assured everyone that this week I'd focus on middle aged women's online dating profiles. Since I am much more comfortable with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this particular post. Free sex dating in Linden Alberta, Canada. This list is my best attempt at summarizing the results of my informal survey, with a few of my own observations based on a bit of research I conducted myself. Disclaimer: if you're a girl between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland region, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I'm sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

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I can't say it any clearer than this: Don't post any selfies of yourself looking into your bathroom mirror, period. Seeing a guy standing next to an open toilet, or even a toilet paper dispenser, is an instant turn off. Take a selfie the way everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as even though you're doing something enjoyable (like fishing or watching football). Free Sex Dating near me Linden Canada. Or, in case you don't have a selfie stick, take your profile photo the old fashioned way by tapping the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your car. Worst comes to worst, have a friend take an action shot of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. Linden Alberta free sex dating. If you don't have a single friend who can take your picture, or you do not own a smartphone, then you likely shouldn't be dating in the first place.

I am not the single one noticing these tendencies. Frequently, when I get together with my single girlfriends the theme of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I Have looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men since I felt they were extremely nice guys. And let's just say that I was not surprised when they shared their frustrations with online dating - of seldom receiving emails from women, of their emails often going unanswered. I wanted to grab these guys by their shoulders, and give them a strong (albeit friendly) handshake, while sharing my feelings about their errant marketing techniques. But I've always resisted the temptation to do so from a anxiety about appearing rude and ill mannered.

Many of these profiles represent random oddities, the one-in-a hundred profile with an eyebrow-raising story or a few gasp-worthy pictures. These profiles can in fact be an excellent source of entertainment, particularly if wine is included. But what I find somewhat distressing are some fairly disturbing tendencies I Have noticed in many men's profiles who appear to be quite regular otherwise. I do empathize, really. Many of us are dating rookies, jumping back into the dating pool after years (sometimes decades) of marriage and child-rearing. We're all winging it to a certain extent, unsure of what the other sex is searching for, or ways to get their attention. However, these gaffes are so obvious that I think it's time someone starts a dialogue and asks the important question: Why? No really, why?

I've been a member of a popular internet dating service for a little over a year now, and I have to say that, overall, I'm pleasantly surprised by the quality of guys I Have met online. While I haven't yet met "the one," I remain optimistic that eventually, I will. Yet despite my generally positive experiences, I've come across a few (hundred) profiles that totally baffle me in a these-guys-certainly-were-not-raised-with-sisters-and-can't-possibly-have-any-female-friends sort of way. Like the man who believed that selecting the username "Undertaker" was a good idea, or the guy who shot his photographs in a room that certainly howled "secured residential facility." Or, the childless man who expressed his deep desire to meet a girl with young children (preferably boys). One of my all time favorites though was the guy who spent half his profile story writing about how he was still intensely in love with his ex wife, but since she wouldn't take him back, he was driven to find love online (yay us!).

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