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I feel like I am aging out" of internet dating. I've discovered after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the answer I get on has dropped to virtually nothing. It is as though proceeding from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some kind of death-knell for a dating life. I initiate contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches the website sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look at the age-range that those men desire, (usually 35-50) I frequently move past them, knowing I can not compete with women in their desirable range, even though many of those guys are as much as 5-8 years older than me! To put it differently, intentionally sends me matches which are probably not realistic for me to pursue. When I've e-mailed some of those guys, I never hear back. I'm guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and probably read no further. Even if I'm within their desired range, I still don't get much of a reply. I assume the reason for this is they can get younger women to react to them, so why would they go for me when they've a chance with the 45 year old model of me? If their first wife was their age, such as, for instance, a college honey or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture encourages this. It's frustrating, not to mention depressing and more than a little humiliating. Free Sex Dating near Pointe Du Bois. It is the built in folly of online sites: you're merely defined by your age, in bold type right next to your user name.

One more thing. I'd like to ask all of my middle-aged internet dating male and female compatriots a party favor. Pointe Du Bois, Manitoba Free Sex Dating. Please, let us rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, lusty, drama-free, and easygoing. And these, let's omit these also: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and any and all derivatives of "my pals/mom/ex/kids tell me that..I'm a glass-half-full optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I believe that if we can all really agree to clean up our profiles then maybe, just maybe, we can locate some common ground and get back to the company of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

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Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you most likely love them), but I do think it is important that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is the fact that way too many women out there in the internet dating world are using the "athletic and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this complaint applies to guys as well, of course). The matter is, there really isn't anything wrong with having an about typical (or curvy) body thus let us take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and understand once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (right, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Photos. I love Instagram photos because several of the filters make my eyes look strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these photographs on my online dating profile? No I do not. Why? Because my eyes are not really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photographs would have you believe. This was the number one criticism among the men I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., delusory) pictures. Truth in advertising ladies, truth in advertising.

Manner too Many Pet Photographs. This was a tremendous criticism among the guys I interviewed. They're looking at your profile to learn more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet pictures, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the subject of pet photos, I 've a personal request of all you single, middle aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photos of your cats. This is so important. I can't stress it enough. Single, middle aged women already need to cope with much too many negative stereotypes, and the cat photos (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats on your bed) merely serve to bolster them. I once wrote a blog post about how dating sometimes made me feel unwanted , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America notifying me that I must live in a dark flat with 100 or so cats, so really, please delete them.

Last week I discussed my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I assured everyone that this week I'd focus on middle aged women's online dating profiles. Since I am much more comfortable with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this particular post. Free Sex Dating nearby Pointe Du Bois Manitoba, Canada. This list is my best effort at summarizing the results of my informal survey, with a few of my own observations predicated on a little research I ran myself. Disclaimer: if you are a woman between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland region, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I'm sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

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I can't say it any clearer than this: Do not post any selfies of yourself looking into your bathroom mirror, period. Seeing a man standing next to an open toilet, or just a toilet paper dispenser, is an instant turn off. Take a selfie the way everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as though you are doing something fun (like fishing or watching football). Free sex dating near Pointe Du Bois Canada. Or, in the event you don't have a selfie stick, take your profile photograph the old fashioned way by tapping the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your automobile. Worst comes to worst, have a friend take an action photo of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. Pointe Du Bois Manitoba free sex dating. Should you not have a single friend who can take your photo, or you do not possess a smartphone, then you likely should not be dating in the first place.

I am not the sole one seeing these tendencies. Frequently, when I get together with my single girlfriends the theme of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I've looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men because I sensed they were genuinely nice guys. And let's just say that I was not surprised when they shared their frustrations with online dating - of rarely receiving emails from women, of their emails often going unanswered. I liked to catch these men by their shoulders, and provide them a strong (albeit friendly) handshake, while sharing my feelings about their errant promotion techniques. But I've consistently resisted the temptation to do so from a anxiety about appearing rude and ill-mannered.

Some of these profiles represent arbitrary oddities, the one-in-a hundred profile with an eyebrow-raising story or a couple gasp-worthy photos. These profiles can be a great source of amusement, particularly when wine is included. But what I find somewhat troubling are some fairly disturbing trends I Have noted in many men's profiles who appear to be quite regular otherwise. I do empathize, really. Many of us are dating beginners, jumping back in the dating pool after years (sometimes decades) of marriage and child-rearing. We're all winging it to a particular extent, unsure of what the other sex is searching for, or the way to get their attention. But these gaffes are really so apparent that I think that it's time someone starts a dialogue and asks the important question: Why? No really, why?

I've been a member of a well-known online dating service for a little over a year now, and I have to say that, overall, I am happily surprised by the characteristic of guys I Have met online. While I haven't yet met "the one," I remain optimistic that eventually, I will. Yet despite my generally positive encounters, I have run into a few (hundred) profiles that completely baffle me in a these-men-certainly-were-not-raised-with-sisters-and-can't-possibly-have-any-female-friends sort of manner. Like the man who believed that choosing the username "Undertaker" was wise, or the guy who shot his pictures in a room that clearly howled "secured residential facility." Or, the childless man who expressed his profound urge to meet a girl with young kids (preferably boys). One of my all-time favorites though was the guy who spent half his profile story writing about how he was still deeply in love with his ex wife, but since she wouldn't take him back, he was forced to find love on-line (yay us!).

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